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{May 24, 2020}   Landslide

Today, was a hard day, it’s the day I gave birth to my daughter, and she’s not here to celebrate. And, I want justice, I thought the song linked below explained my emotions but what I really wanted to convey is what I posted and said five years ago, and here it is.

Twenty (…Fifteen) years ago I learned from a stranger’s voice at a hospital emergency room on the west coast where my daughter was attending college, she was dead-on-arrival at their hospital from GHB poisoning. The men, a local hip-hop singer (Abstract Rude), and his band members (in ‘99), who brought my daughter to the hospital admitted in sworn statements to the police she had been at their music studio (Ocean Floor Studio), forty to fifty (40-50) minutes when she fell to the floor convulsing and went into a coma. Abstract, his manager and band members, despite attempting to give CPR and quitting, decided not to call 911, or seek medical attention.

What’s always been confusing is the homicide division didn’t immediately react to the red herring in Abstract and the band’s statements i.e., Skylar was at their studio 40 to 50 minutes before showing any symptoms of distress, which indicates she did, in fact, ingest the GHB at the music studio, despite Abstract and his band members’ denial that they were the source of the GHB, or had anything to do with the homicide. Their statements were flawed with suspicious impossibilities. Abstract denied he was in a relationship with Skylar, and denied his involvement with her professionally but, e.g., she had designed the covers for his CDs (http://www.musicstack.com/discography/abstract+tribe+unique/mood+pieces/r722941.) Neither the police nor the homicide division of San Francisco followed up on the issues, and they never brought in Abstract or his band entourage for questioning beyond their initial statements they provided to the police who were dispatched to the hospital. The facts surrounding our beloved, Skylar demise and the GHB poisoning were never made clear to the public (http://www.sfgate.com/news/article/Concern-Over-Rise-In-Blue-Nitro-Use-6-in-S-F-2912000.php.)

Abstract and his band entourage walked away–free men, unaccountable for their predatory acts and it is clear from Skylar’s friends who she had been with all evening prior to her leaving for the music studio to meet up with Abstract in the predawn hours of Easter Sunday ‘99, she was clear and radiant, and fully cognizant. It’s unknown why a young vibrant young women with an amazing life would knowingly take a massive dose of a date-rape-drug/GHB, which remained in her system, postmortem, even though GHB metabolizes from the blood and tissue very rapidly. Her toxicology report indicated GHB was the only drug in her system although there was a trace of alcohol.
Skylar’s life ended senselessly, but momentously, and her absence has left an indelible stain on our hearts. My hope has been that someone would come forward who was at the Ocean Floor Studio that night, or a retired sleuth might take up the cold case, and reopen an investigation to look at the evidence with a mind to solve the homicide because those who predatorily took Skylar’s life using GHB, they need to answer. There are many facts known today about GHB activation rate, and by Abstract and the band members’ own admission (in their statements), Skylar didn’t show symptoms until 40 to 50 minutes after she arrived at the music studio to meet up with Abstract,  who had called and asked her to come get him. She was never seen alive again, after entering the Ocean Floor Studio. Her drink was spiked with a fatal dose of GHB, and the predators aren’t turning themselves in.

What we now know (http://www.nhtsa.gov/people/injury/research/job185drugs/gamma-hydroxybutyrate.htm), as fact, is GHB reacts in the body within 15 to 20 minutes minutes of ingestion depending on stomach content. And, if you are drinking alcohol it has a synergistic effect (speeding) on the depressing the central nervous system. GHB is made from industrial solvent purchased at the hardware store and can be manufactured in one’s kitchen sink.

BUT, despite all we know about GHB ((http://www.ussc.gov/sites/default/files/pdf/amendment-process/public-hearings-and-meetings/20040317-19/Avergun-DOJ.pdf), it’s proliferation (http://chicago.cbslocal.com/2013/02/27/2-investigators-date-rape-drug-becoming-favorite-for-recreational-use/) has moved from the kitchen sink operations of the 90’s to worldwide clandestine manufacturers (http://oag.ca.gov/news/press-releases/californians-overdose-leads-arrest-phoenix-and-seizure-1100-gallons-illegal) around the planet, especially China, who manufacture GHB in 55-gallon drums and is marketed over the internet by black market dealers.

GHB IS A THREAT TO SOCIETY and the more awake and conscious and aware we become of predators armed with GHB in our midst the more likely we can destroy the market for this threatening drug. Who do you think is predominately the victim of GHB and date rape drug poisonings? WOMEN. Be a beacon for GHB awareness and watch out for vulnerability in women in your proximity. If you see someone putting something in someone’s drink, speak up…WARN the potential victim. Align with your sisters.

In honor of my daughter, Skylar Lynn, I have documented the facts as I know them (stated above) in a fictionalized story, “A Forever Story,” available on Amazon or Barnes and Nobel.

Please be conscious of your surroundings, and be discerning about people you might regard as your friends, and, most importantly, stay aware of your open drinks…NEVER leave your drink unattended. “Spread the good word in honor of Skylar Ringland, a shining star of our underground family who lost her life recently due to her involuntary ingestion of GHB,” (http://www.metroactive.com/papers/sfmetro/05.10.99/groundscore.html)..

To anyone who seeks to donate to the Skylar Lynn Ringland Foundation and the investigation into her senseless death, please contact Cathleen (Cat) Lynn Boyle at catboyl30@gmail.com.



Help fight for the elimination of violence against women by checking out my book, A Forever Story, (https://www.amazon.com/Forever-Story-Cathleen-Lynn-Boyle-ebook/dp/B07YQ7SJGC.)  

A Forever Story is a fictionalized story about my precious daughter who went to an after hours music studio party and nine hours later was dead-on-arrival at a local San Francisco hospital. Her case remains a cold cases as no one witnessed who spiked her drink. It is in my daughter’s honor that I created this blog promoting awareness of date rape drugs and women’s issues.

Proceeds from the book ( A Forever Story) are going to the Skylar Lynn Ringland Foundation to help support the awareness and education of young women and girls, and to help develop Ghb detection research.

Thank you for continuing to follow and support women’s awareness.

 



{October 7, 2019}   A FOREVER STORY

 

Hello, I have published a fictionalized version of my daughter’s story and what happened to her, and our family, in 1999 as a result of date rape drugs and ignorant depraved men. It’s titled, A Forever Story, and it’s published on Kindle and Amazon. Here are the links. Thank you for your patience.

https://www.amazon.com/dp/1697636365   Thank you, Cathleen Lynn Boyle



Worked on editing Shadow Dance until the story evolved into, The Day i Was Murdered; then A FOREVER STORY written in memory of my beloved daughter, Skylar Lynn Ringland. I am putting the finishing touches on the manuscript and will post it here, soon. Looking forward to returning to the blog.

Here are the links to the story as published, A FOREVER STORY: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07YQ7SJGC

 



{April 23, 2019}   Groove Is In The Heart

She’s the groove in my heart…

PLAY:

Deee-lite…https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=etviGf1uWlg

Skylar’s friend Catherine, says she remembers Skylar singing and dancing to this song.  Enjoy the memory.

A fictionalized version of Skylar’s story is published as, A Forever Story: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07YQ7SJGC

 



{June 3, 2016}   Katie Koestner

Bringing her story of date rape to the world, Katie Koestner (http://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-36434191), kept her story alive. We know it can happen to any girl or woman. It can happen if your female. Thank you Katie Koestler for awareness you have provided by telling your story until people listened. Thank you. I know there are many of you out there that have a story too. Let us hear your voice. Join the conversation.

Please, help keep my daughter, Skylar’s story alive. Its a story about how a young 22 year old girl can innocently or unknowingly open doors and hearts to predators in their midst. I have written a novel, called Sophie’s Shadow. (previously written as SHADOWDANCE by Cat Lynn Boyle as of 2016 03 20by Cat Lynn Boyle as of 2016 03 20) REWRITTEN & PUBLISHED AS, A FOREVER STORY: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07YQ7SJGC

https://www.amazon.com/dp/1697636365

A FOREVER STORY tells my daughter’s story. It’s about what happened to her one dawn when her rapper/friend invited her after hours to his studio. Seven hours laters, she died after ingesting a drink at the studio, laced with the date rape drug, GHB. My daughter’s case is a cold case, and, what her case needs is the attention Katie Koestler is able to incite around her experience with date rape. Katie Koestner is the hero, I’m not. If any of you reading this blog have ideas about how to build momentum around Skylar’s story, please reply with your ideas. And, Katie, if you read my blog, I’d really enjoy hearing more of your story. Thank you for following.

 



{December 24, 2015}   Merry Christmas

Merry Christmas World, may all your dreams be realized in the new year.



As many of you, who have followed my blog in the past, know, I’ve been distracted by the intensive work of editing a novel, Shadow Dance, which is written in memory of my beloved daughter, who died as a result of a GHB poisoning, and, for whom this site is in memoriam. I am so thrilled to inform you that the work of editing is paying off. Shadow Dance has received literary mention, by the William Faulkner Literary Awards for 2015 Best Novel Honorable Mention!

It will not be long before Shadow Dance will be available in bookstores, as well as if you place a request here for a free copy once published in gratitude for following and supporting raising awareness of violence against women.

WFLA 2015 Best Novel Honorable Mention Shadow Dance Cat Lynn Boyle

 

 

 

FOLLOW HERE AND CLICK ON “SHADOW DANCE” to read a copy.

2015 Winners

This has all been rewritten and published under the title: A Forever Story…follow the links: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07YQ7SJGC



Let go of old school gender norms rooted in judgment. Watch: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/03/09/menengageorg-video-gender-norms-hurt-everyone_n_6816586.html?utm_hp_ref=women&ir=Women

But more on gender. This is not at all a complete list, and forgive me if I get some things wrong…

There are male people, and there are female people.
There are people who do not feel they have a gender at all (agender, occasionally genderless).
There are people who have a gender that is in between (some genderqueer, most androgynous, some third gender, some neutrois).
There are people who have a distinct gender altogether (other third gender, some genderqueer).
There are people whose gender changes (genderfluid, more specifically bigender, trigender, some pangender, many two-spirit).
There are people who have more than one gender, at the same time (other bigender/trigender/pangender).http://www.quora.com/How-many-genders-are-there



How quickly our lives can twist in literally seconds into an unrecognizable existence. In the morning your a wife and mother and then its all taken from you. A Florida woman in the linked article [http://www.essence.com/2015/03/04/marissa-alexander-exclusive/] runs from her husband, who has a history of abused her, and previous wives, but, in a heated moment she gets a gun to protect herself and fires a warning shot into the kitchen wall. Her husband runs and calls 911reporting his wife just fired at him and his kids but the kids weren’t in the house. At her trial she is convicted of felony assault and sentenced to 20 years even though Florida is a “Stand Your Ground” defense state BUT CLEARLY the law does not apply to women against their husband. Why is that? Discrimination against women is systemic and persistent. Why does gender play a role in one’s ability to receive equal justice?



et cetera